Sunday, July 09, 2006

Musings on a piercing

I paid a young woman to show me her pussy. This is, of course, standard practice in "gentlemen's establishments" where nude lap dancing is offered. I'm old enough and sufficiently set in my ways to ask for exactly what I want and will pay for it. I much prefer women with natural, unenhanced breasts; big or small, I don't care. As for piercings and tattoos, the fewer the better. I'm not being judgemental. A stripper's body is definitely her personal artistic space. I just don't want to pay for a roadrunner tattoo to be waggled in my face. This particular stripper, the one who was displaying herself to me, had short blond hair and glasses, a unique and intriguing quality. She was enthusiastic and petite. As I sprawled on the couch, she definitely knew she had an effect on me. At various times, her breasts, ass, and pussy were rubbing on my erection. If not for my pants, she could have been penetrated. I'm NOT hung like a porn star, but everything of mine works just fine (thank you). Appointments with bouncers are untimely and unpleasant, so I dutifully keep my hands (et al) to myself.

During the course of the entertainment, I noticed she was delicately pierced. A small gold ring was imbedded in the hood of flesh above her clitoris. I'm sure she did this for her personal pleasure. As I observed her writhing and enjoyed the pressure of her body on mine, this ring set me to wondering , what is the nature of her pleasure? Cynically, I'm a walking cash register of minimal interest to this woman. By feel, she knows she can please me. Over the course of an evening, however, does she get turned on by anything or is she jaded to the extent it is simply a job that pays better than McBurger's? In an all nude establishment, what does a stripper do when she gets turned on and wet? I don't specifically want to turn her on, but I do want to believe she somehow continues to enjoy sex somewhere and with someone. Masturbation, a lesbian friend, a male lover, someone who cares enough about her to give her the pleasure the little ring deserves.

A reader might reasonably wonder why I visit such establishments. I love my wife very much and am not interested in sex with anyone but her. However, she is a fuck-in-the-dark person. I, on the other hand, am visually oriented. I'm generally disappointed in mainstream porn. Those fingernails? YES!, YES!, UMMMM! AAHHH! YES! (for how long?) Can those silicone breasts get any more rigid? So it is, that I occasionally go to a local strip club, pick a woman with natural breasts and minimal tattoos or piercings, and spend my money for a beer and get to look at her all I want.

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